shishka_b0b
shishk what ya momma gave ya!
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Don’t you put that evil on KDE, Ricky Bobby!!
If KDE was a woman… I’d take her out for a 3 course meal, split the bill bc she don’t need no man to take care of her (or her baby), drive her home using the scenic route, walk with her from the car to her front door, then ask for consent before giving her a goodnight kiss
shishka_b0b@lemmy.zipto
ADHD@lemmy.world•Is it possible for us with ADHD to date an avoidant?English
01·2 months agoThe best advice I can give is to make it as easy as possible for them to talk to you. Try to be as perceptive as you can. I’ve been in a lot of similar situations, and when I could tell something was definitely wrong, I eventually realized there were better approaches than asking, “Is everything okay?” I started saying things like, “What’s wrong, and how can I help?” instead. That kind of phrasing made it easier for them to see that I wasn’t just checking whether they wanted to talk - I genuinely wanted to talk about it with them.
Try not to overdo it though, especially at first. Let them keep whatever they want to themselves. Leading by example can be helpful too. If they ask you whether something’s wrong and it’s something small you don’t need to talk about, kindly tell them you’d rather not talk about it. It might seem obvious to you that you can acknowledge something’s wrong without having to open up immediately, but it might not be obvious to them. And you can always explain it later if you want to.
It’s also important to remember there’s a reason they avoid things. If they know they’re the avoidant type, see whether they’re also the type who’d want to figure out why, together. Maybe they’ll even want to help you figure out why you tend to overshare (beyond the ADHD). That’s important too. Let them reciprocate the help as much as possible.
Again, try not to overdo any of this. It’s a delicate balance. You will overstep sometimes, and you may have to be the one who notices that as well. When you think you might have overwhelmed them, give them some space. That’ll probably be more helpful than an immediate apology. You should apologize eventually, but only once they’re no longer overwhelmed. That’s also a good time to show them you’re not just sorry. You genuinely want to get better at being there for them in the way that works best for them.
shishka_b0b@lemmy.zipto
Technology@lemmy.world•Samsung reveals first tri-fold phoneEnglish
1·2 months agoCommitment: 10/10
Execution: 0/10
shishka_b0b@lemmy.zipto
Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Plex’s crackdown on free remote streaming access starts this week - Ars TechnicaEnglish
32·2 months agoI haven’t had any problems with subtitles. You mind linking the issue report you’re referring to?
He was kidnapped bc he touched the butt. I had to go all the way to 42 Wallaby Way, Sydney, Australia to find him after that and Ellen DeGeneres wouldn’t stfu the entire way there 😮💨
shishka_b0b@lemmy.zipto
Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Thai woman wakes up in coffin shortly before cremationEnglish
42·2 months ago
shishka_b0b@lemmy.zipto
Not The Onion@lemmy.world•Thai woman wakes up in coffin shortly before cremationEnglish
122·2 months agoThai woman wakes up in coffin shortly before cremation
They decided to cremate her anyway?!?!
/s
shishka_b0b@lemmy.zipto
Technology@lemmy.world•Paul McCartney joins music industry protest against AI with silent trackEnglish
11·2 months agoThat’s not weird at all
shishka_b0b@lemmy.zipto
Privacy@lemmy.ml•NovaCustom launches privacy SHIFTphone (degoogled with iodéOS and hardware kill switches)
15·2 months agoAm I missing something here? The phone can be bought from the manufacturer for €650 and this company is trying to flip that same phone, but with a custom rom pre-installed for €950? So it’s essentially a €300 upcharge to have someone else flash the custom ROM for you. There’s also an automatic installer available for download on the ROMs website, so people wouldn’t have to mess around with ADB or anything if they wanted to do it themself. Most of what’s mentioned about graphene is also BS and the whole write up is just riddled with misinformation.
Please tell me I’m missing something bc if I’m not then no one should buy a single thing from this company.
Edit: OP has a business relationship with this company
shishka_b0b@lemmy.zipto
Games@lemmy.world•While we eagerly await the second coming of Steam Machines, it's worth remembering what a gloriously awful mess Valve got itself in over a decade agoEnglish
31·3 months agoThe goal of marketing is to get as many people as possible to be aware that a company’s product exists. These articles are doing just that, for free.
Initial sales will probably take a hit bc of the negative articles. I don’t think they’re being written bc valve decided to stick with the same name though. The articles are probably being written bc negative headlines get clicks.
If the new steam machine proves to be a solid product this time around then gamers are going to buy it. If it’s such a solid product that it manages to turn a product line that was once associated with failure and negativity into a product line that’s associated with success and positivity then I really can’t think of anything better the new steam machine could do for valve’s brand. The (hypothetical) articles comparing the huge (hypothetical) success of the new steam machine to the dramatic failure of the past will also be a bit easier to write a headline for. More free marketing.
shishka_b0b@lemmy.zipto
Firefox@lemmy.ml•Using Sidebery Instead of Firefox Vertical Tabs
3·3 months agoI wasn’t sure what the actual preference name was so the code I gave you wasn’t accurate. This is exactly what you need in the
user.jsfile:user_pref("sidebar.visibility", "hide-sidebar");It didn’t seem to work the first time I restarted Firefox even though the value for
sidebar.visibilitywas changed correcty in about:config so I edited it back toalways-showand then right back tohide-sidebarand now the sidebar remains hidden on startupEdit: typo
shishka_b0b@lemmy.zipto
Firefox@lemmy.ml•Using Sidebery Instead of Firefox Vertical Tabs
7·3 months agoPut the config settings in a
user.jsfile and save it in the root directory of your Firefox profile. It should look something like this:user_pref("always-show.config.setting", false); user_pref("hide-sidebar.config.setting", true);
High horse = high altitude = nose bleed
I can “waste” a couple minutes on you and still accomplish a lot of other stuff throughout the day. Also, who said I’m a man?
Are you saying we should be compassionate about the way we mock fascists? I generally don’t condone making fun of the way people look, but this is an exception I’m absolutely willing to make and it also doesn’t stop us from mocking anything else about them. And no, none of us should relax. You should probably get off that high horse before you catch a nose bleed though.






Hell yeah. Jenny can lick my twat.