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Cake day: July 6th, 2023

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  • This article makes some salient points and recognizes modern conditions. However, the thesis seems to be “women’s freedom to choose divorce is bad for men”. Which is familiar to anyone who’s been around conservatives. It’s kind of odd that they don’t mention the harms women’s freedom causes society and children. But otherwise this is identical to what the Baptists and Catholics have been saying since forever.

    The article suggests that people who have partners who’ve “checked out” aren’t doing a good job, but they don’t dwell on that like they do the trauma of an unexpected divorce.

    Reads like sane-washed incel shit to me.



  • This is a common experience. But before you listen to the gender war bullshit about how it’s just not fair to be a man, consider some of the other explanations.

    I’ve been abandoned, and I’ve been the friend who chose the girl. And I’ve learned some important things.

    1. it’s the couple who forces friends to choose. most people would keep both relationships, but people going through breakups are myopic and insist.

    2. I chose to be friends with the girl because she was a better friend. Not because I was endorsing her grievances.

    3. I can’t blame my friends for choosing my ex. I would have abandoned any of them for her.