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Call me Lenny/Leni to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish • 2 years ago

When you vet someone for whether you can be close friends with them, what's a seemingly unimpactful characteristic about someone that would instantly rule them out as a potential close friend for you?

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When you vet someone for whether you can be close friends with them, what's a seemingly unimpactful characteristic about someone that would instantly rule them out as a potential close friend for you?

Call me Lenny/Leni to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish • 2 years ago
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    Unimpactful trait? I’d say if they put the toilet paper the wrong way, if you have to ask which way is the right way we can’t be friends. Also if they don’t return the shopping cart, instant way for me to lose respect for you.

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        Nope, I have cats and it’s still only one way. I’m sorry but we can’t be friends with that attitude.

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          Both have cats and have fostered cats. This person is right; there’s still only one correct way.

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      Oddly enough your rigity on this is why we could not be friends.

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