@sexualanimal@lemmynsfw.com to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish • 5 days agoHow do you handle hot people when in a relationship? I would never act but it sometimes drives me crazy how unbelievably hot some people I pass daily are.NSFWmessage-square17fedilinkarrow-up113arrow-down13
arrow-up110arrow-down1message-squareHow do you handle hot people when in a relationship? I would never act but it sometimes drives me crazy how unbelievably hot some people I pass daily are.NSFW@sexualanimal@lemmynsfw.com to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish • 5 days agomessage-square17fedilink
minus-square@NeoNachtwaechter@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglish12•5 days ago“Hot” is only on the outside. Treat these people like humans. With normal respect and politeness. Get to know them. You will find that they have their strengths and their weaknesses etc. and even some details that turn you off. “Hot” is going to fade away once you know how real and how normal people they are.
minus-square@buangsajabah@lemmynsfw.comlinkfedilinkEnglish2•4 days agoMy thoughts too. I think: “man they’re hot. But what if they murder my cats out of jealousy?”
“Hot” is only on the outside.
Treat these people like humans. With normal respect and politeness. Get to know them.
You will find that they have their strengths and their weaknesses etc. and even some details that turn you off.
“Hot” is going to fade away once you know how real and how normal people they are.
My thoughts too. I think: “man they’re hot. But what if they murder my cats out of jealousy?”