I’m just wondering, no particular reason.

Did you find a partner using it? How long did you use it? What did you think about it? How many matches did you get? What problems did you see? Do you think its a good way to meet other people? What did you use it for / what was your intention?

Just in general, what was the experience like?

  • Squigglez@leminal.space
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    30 days ago

    Used many of the dating sites/apps over the years. Tinder, OkCupid, PlentyofFish, Match, Hinge, Happn, Facebook Dating and at least one or two others. Literally found nothing on ALL of them. I had one date from OkCupid, a coffee date. And it was hella awkward, it lasted maybe 30 minutes, and we both went our separate ways.

    The very few matches I would get would either net me a “promotional” message for their OF page, or I would get one word responses for 3 messages and then ghosted. I would say at least 70% of the accounts I ever even interacted with were bots or fakes of some form.

    One good success story though, and I’m still with her to this day, is from Bumble. I used Bumble several times over the years, and usually had my same luck, but 2 and a half years ago I matched with someone and we hit it off from the start. We’re still going strong 🤙🏻🤙🏻

    It’s really a shot in the dark on that shit. You’ll most likely find nonsense, but if you’re a gamblin’ fella, the reward could be worth the risk.