I recently learned about the stag and vixen terms while looking into the same question. It is nice to have a word for it.
I also enjoy some dominance of my partners when having sex with other people, just as I do in other sexual contexts. But my most prominent feeling when my partners have had sex with other people, with or without my involvement, has just been a joyous “Hell yeah, we got some! Go team!”
I can’t decide if your comment about noone caring at all was meant as a neutral observation about the people you know, or a statement of disappointment that none of your friends appreciate your accomplishment. 😆
I would also be proud to get that high. So from me: good job! 👍
I have gotten good use out of these dog bone cookie cutters, both for making dog treats for dogs and dog treats for people.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B3DKJF8K
You can use any type of cookie mix you like. But if you want a little extra authenticity, these peanut butter dog treats are loved by dogs and fully edible for people, if a little bit bland.
Only had one MFM threesome, unfortunately. I love the look of a woman who is a bit overwhelmed.
For me it tickles, and not much else. Pressure from a finger there is fantastic, though. Having sex with my partner lying on her side and me straddling her bottom leg also provides good pressure there.
The technical term for the area is the perineum. I greatly enjoy pressure on it, though not licking.
It was embarassing at the time, but a unique experience to be plunged into such a deep, dreamless unconsciousness. I don’t engage in intense choking during sex, but it is good to have experienced it to varying degrees in organized practice.
I am something of the opposite. I like sports coats, three-piece suits and dressing up as formal as I can push things without looking ridiculous (or, if I am with friends, sometimes just looking a bit ridiculous). But I live in a hot climate where there are only a few months of the year I can layer up without melting into a pile of slag. 😭
This year I have been subjecting one of my wives to orgasm denial, under threat of intense application of her shock collar. She has been allowed three or four total, on special occasions. She has been loving it. It has left her constantly horny and she says it has been the best sex of her life. She is on day fifty of her current streak, and I am intending to extend it to a full year. When her chastity belt arrives I am eager to figure out the best way to fit it with a remote vibrator, so I can tease her at will.
Male here. Usually one orgasm in a day. Sometimes two. I can go as long as I want, but once I’m spent, I’m pretty well spent. I can manage three on rare occasions.
Interesting to know. I have never heard about that before.
This is the hardcore NSFW content I come to this Lemmy instance for.
Honestly, I want to see my wife have sex with other men as we all humiliate her.
Sometimes, when I want to express my deep and special connection to my partner, I will perform an act I call nose finger. This act consists of me extending my index finger, shoving it in her nostril, then holding it there a few moments as we savor the connection. I reason, in this depraved, libertine age, you could sleep with someone and have it mean almost nothing. But who, except your most intimate of intimates, would you let shove their finger up your nose?
She appreciates how deeply romantic I am.
Straight man here. I was asked out by a trans woman and we started going out. Somewhat different situation than your question, as I never had particular fantasies of or attraction to trans women. We eventually slept together. I was super nervous, since she was my first date, first kiss, first everything. In the end we got married and are living happily ever after, so I would say it worked out pretty great.
Based on your question I presume you are particularly interested in the aspect of being with a woman with a penis. For me it was alright. It is not my preferred genital configuration for a sexual partner, so I was quite happy when she got SRS several years later.
Like Jersusalemspiderman mentioned, many trans women have a contentious relationship with that part of their anatomy. I am not sure what percentage of trans women are interested in performing penetrative anal sex on a man, but I believe it is fairly low; if that particular act is important to you, you may be going against long odds. It was not something that I desired. While my then-girlfriend was pre-op, we did anal sex with me as the penetrator. I occasionally performed oral sex, though she liked to give more than receive. And the handjobs were mutual. I also topped in a variety of BDSM activities, though that is not really trans-related.
Be aware that estrogen can reduce penis size. It can vary a lot person-to-person, though. My other trans girlfriend actually had a penis larger than mine.
Treat the trans people in your life with kindness. Society is often cruel to them.
Update: apparently my wives are both interested in doing CNC. Thanks @freeusething@lemmynsfw.com; showing them your post about a Dagoth Ur CNC scene resulted in them expressing their interest without me even asking. The response from one: “Look, if I have to wear a Dagoth Ur mask to get a CNC scene, I’ll do it!”
Did you end up trying this? I would be interested in hearing how it went.
I have never tried a game like that, but I could see the benefit in letting you both experiment with new activities without pressure that you will enjoy them. The closest comparison I can think of is a time when, as a joke, I licked between my wife’s toes. I was fully expecting her to scream and recoil. Instead, she moaned. We both learned something new about her that day.
I was choked unconscious once, as a stupid novice grappler who didn’t tap out when I should. It was wild waking up from what felt like a deeply restful sleep, and realizing that for some reason I was on a mat instead of my bed, and there was a circle of people around me. It took me half a minute to remember how I got there. 😅
Last year I borrowed a 3D camera from the library to try making a VR home sex tape. The outdated software led to some double-vision at the edges of the shot, and we are anything but professional pornographers (in one shot, you can see one of my partners knocking over a floor light at the edge of the scene as we moved around 😅). But it was a fun and novel experience.