Yea I use desec with the caddy plugin as well and it was super easy to setup! Haven’t really had any issues relating to my domain that I am aware of

The link to Fedizen.net in the article appears to be dead

I really liked tandoor but I moved to mealie cuz tandoor doesn’t have any method of backing up your instance and I lost all my recipes when switching to a new machine (a good part of that was user error too but the lack of a backup option to save my dumb ass meant I needed to look elsewhere)

I use dwarf fortress for this but the learning curve is pretty steep as it can be a bit complex but once you get the hang of it and you have a nice fort up and running, you can kindof let it run in the background like an idle game

Vikunja will cover all the bases you’re looking for I think! I’ve really been enjoying it

I’m super excited about fluxer. An iOS app is all I need before recommending it to my buddies but I am very excited for the self-hosted version