I can share my experiences, when i was looking for nsfw communities where there would be conversations/discussions around topics of kink/power exchange etc. it was a difficult search. Most nsfw discord guilds lack a well defined purpose, they are often built around the pursuit of quick gratification rather than exploring kinks/sexuality in a more comprehensive way. There were a few healthy communities but they were in a different part of the world and the cultural differences were huge. I wish people would build communities around conversations instead of just sharing porn/gifs.
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Saiwal@utsukta.orgtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•What's your experience of the ecosystem of "NSFW" Discord guilds?3·3 months ago
Saiwal@utsukta.orgto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Self hosted alternatives to games like Wordle, Connections, and Skrbbl(dot)io?
11·3 months ago@sbird there is a bot i use with discord which has many such games, you can self host the bot but it works with discord. Not a 100% self-hosted solution but you may find it useful.
https://docs.discord.red/and for games https://index.discord.red/
Saiwal@utsukta.orgto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Is there a good email server that can be run through Docker?
4·3 months ago+1 for mailcow, i’ve been running my mailserver for over 2 years now, very efficient, no hassle setup.
@Meow-Misfit cant find the first one and the second one is not upto date #[1](https://trinidad.social/siteinfo) shows hubzilla v8.2, latest is 10.6.1
you might want to choose from a hub that runs latest hubzilla and is open to public from here #[2](https://hubzilla.fediverse.observer/list), #[3](https://hubzilla.org/pubsites)
@Meow-Misfit which hub? your own or a public one? if your own how did you deploy it?
Saiwal@utsukta.orgto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Finding a private self hosted Google Photos alternative that doesn’t profit from my photos
1·5 months ago@unknowing8343 yes, i’ve been using Memories app to tag and organize my photos and it has been running smoothly. no complaints whatsoever.
Saiwal@utsukta.orgto Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ@lemmy.dbzer0.com•Drewlive github removed
12·5 months ago@m0ondoggy i get my list from github.com/iptv-org/iptv
Saiwal@utsukta.orgto Fediverse@lemmy.world•Fediverse alternative to Facebook is what's really missing
4·6 months agoEveryone has already recommended friendica, but there is also hubzilla which is a fork of friendica and has much more. Its relatively unknown but very powerful, also there is this family of platforms that are for smaller communities for facebook alternative, friendica, hubzilla, streams, forte. You might want to give these a try, friendica is the oldest but others have evolved and have better ui/features and superb privacy controls.
links:
#[1](https://github.com/friendica/friendica)
#[2](https://framagit.org/hubzilla/core)
#[3](https://codeberg.org/streams/streams)
#[4](https://codeberg.org/fortified/forte)
oh this recently happened to me. but nothing much was lost, users were managed with SSO, files were unaffected, barely an inconvenience.
reddit still has rss feeds. You have to use the old reddit links, like <#[1](https://old.reddit.com/r/science.rss)>
The best use case for RSS for me is getting updates from journals and github releases. Also subscribing to youtube channels feeds is convenient since i dont have to visit their website regularly and can just watch the channels that im interested in.
Saiwal@utsukta.orgto Piracy: ꜱᴀɪʟ ᴛʜᴇ ʜɪɢʜ ꜱᴇᴀꜱ@lemmy.dbzer0.com•What is the best way to stream live TV?
3·7 months ago@plankton I’ve added the same to mine and it works for me.
Saiwal@utsukta.orgtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•is this instance blocked by default on lemmy.world?5·8 months agono, it federates. you can check on https://phiresky.github.io/lemmy-federation-state/site?domain=lemmynsfw.com
Saiwal@utsukta.orgto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•What external services do you use for your selfhosting setup?
1·8 months ago- have a cloud server for public IP to host email server, headscale and coturn.
- hetrix tools for uptime monitoring
- cloudflare for ddos protection etc.
Saiwal@utsukta.orgto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•What external services do you use for your selfhosting setup?
2·8 months agohetrixtools is so good!
Saiwal@utsukta.orgto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Started hosting my own Nextcloud and its awesome!
11·8 months agoThe RSS reader is pretty good too!
Saiwal@utsukta.orgtoAsk Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com•Can't find the new community space for online D/s, BDSM, kink5·8 months ago@JadedDomNZ I am also looking for such a community, on the fediverse, unfortunately it looks like there aren’t any active ones. We’ll need to build one.
@HBK yes, its impossible to go through them all, searching by keywords might be helpful. e.g ‘games’, ‘reminder’, ‘birthday’
@HBK there are hangman cogs, wordle, chess and many more games. there is an index for cogs that can help you find relevant ones https://index.discord.red/
Other than the standard admin ones, i found the tickettool to be very useful for setting up an approval process before someone is allowed in.
I use grocy for this. It has task tracking and along with other home management stuff its a good solution.