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breast cancer survivor, web dev professional, succulents, gaming, yarn crafts, 3d printing.

alt: StopForgettingIt@ piefed.social

alt: StopForgettingIt@ dbzer0.com

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Cake day: June 28th, 2023

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  • Its not a controversial take, lots of us in the sober community don’t mesh with AA. I would never bash another persons path to sobriety, but the way they look at people who get sober working the steps vs people who chose other paths doesn’t sit great with me. I also don’t like the direction AA steers people to feel helplessness around addiction and giving your recovery to a “higher power”. But like I said - what works for some may not work for others, and I would never stop anyone from finding and walking the right path to recovery from them, as I have for myself.

    If you see this and you are looking to experience sobriety and you are not feeling like AA is for you, there is lots of options out there like, Allen Carr’s Easyway, SMART recovery and Recovery Dharma just to name a few. But also please if you are struggling, feel free to DM me. I am always happy to talk.








  • Where do you suggest he carry his cane while he is in the wheel chair?

    Side to side so it takes out the kneecaps of everyone around him?

    Front to back so he can gut punch the ones in front or behind?

    Or maybe out to the side? Where it won’t hit anyone?

    Lets go further, if he holds it to the side, should he just hover it stiffly in the air while moving?

    Maybe the answer is this is the easiest way to hold the cane while moving without taking anyone out or forcing someone else to carry his stuff.





  • My cat is gone now, RIP to the sweetest girl, but in her time she was the top one to everyone else and the bottom one for me. At the vet in her file it was written in red ink with yellow highlight “CAUTION”, but she would let me roll her around all over the floor on her back and put my face right in her belly without any issues. Its good because in her later years she had stage 4 kidney disease and her being that comfortable with me made it very easy to give her Sub Q and maintain that treatment for over 2 years.