• Flying Squid
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    610 months ago

    I think they so often are claimed to be. How many actually are? Have there been some? Yes. Do we actually know how many? Even a rough estimate?

    • @exanime@lemmy.today
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      110 months ago

      I think they so often are claimed to be

      They portrait themselves as raging homophobics just to then pretend to be gay? I don’t follow

      • Flying Squid
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        410 months ago

        I think that other people often make the claim that homophobes are secretly gay and I’m asking if we actually know how many, even based on a rough estimate, that applies to. If not, it’s a spurious and rather disturbing claim.

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          10 months ago

          This is exactly how stereotypes work. And no, they should not be taking super seriously even if they do tend to come from some real life examples

          Personally, I am not super concerned if claims against homophobes are spurious, they do not seem to mind claiming gay people are pedophiles in disguise for example

          • Flying Squid
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            310 months ago

            But as I said, it suggests that queer people are the homophobes. That’s my issue. It lessens the bigotry issue if the implication is that cishet people aren’t the ones being homophobic.

            • @exanime@lemmy.today
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              010 months ago

              Not it doesn’t… some fruits are apples, apples are not all fruit

              Again, I do not know what you are fishing for but I don’t care to follow

              • Flying Squid
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                410 months ago

                Yes it does, since every time someone is in the news for being homophobic, people chime in to say they’re in the closet. Every single time.

      • Flying Squid
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        210 months ago

        18 people vs. every single person who says anything homophobic that gets reported on the news since people always claim that person is closeted.

        Which is my point.