• @Shapillon@lemmy.world
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    12 days ago

    idk for idiot or imbecile.

    Moron is a slur imho.

    But these are only my opinions and English isn’t even my first language so I might miss some things ^^`

    • @TexMexBazooka@lemm.ee
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      12 days ago

      The reason I bring these words up is every one of them was originally a medical diagnosis, that eventually became offensive so they changed it to retarded, which has now itself become offensive, which then became special ed/sped, or special needs, which are now going the way of retard and becoming offensive.

      The line of which of those words is a slur is entirely arbitrary.

      Euphemism treadmill go brrr

      • @Shapillon@lemmy.world
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        12 days ago

        Yup but imho it doesn’t stop there.

        Once the word stops being used as a medical diagnosis it will slowly stop being associated with learning / mental disabilities.

        Nowadays not a lot of people associate saying someone is an idiot with any social minority so it kinda is just a disparaging qualifier.

        Retard just happens to currently be in that sour spot.

        • @OrteilGenou@lemmy.world
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          02 days ago

          Someday saying “intellectually disabled” will draw horrified gasps from people who will berate you for not using “cerebrally unenfranchised”

          • @TexMexBazooka@lemm.ee
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            12 days ago

            I mean there’s already a school of thought that “disabled” has a negative connotation to it, that’s where the term “differently-abled” comes in.

            It’s all kind of a dance to not hurt anyone’s feelings.

            • @Shapillon@lemmy.world
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              12 days ago

              Honestly “differently-abled” seems more like a media term than anything linked to either handicapped communities or scientific research. Imho it’s kinda stupid.

              And people speaking on behalf of marginalized communities is a real issue that does a lot of harm. e.g. Autism Speaks

              An expression I encountered helping my roommate work on their education master was “handicapping situations”. It’s a bit unwieldy but I like that it conveys that someone is handicapped by a combination of an ailment, an activity, and a lack of accessibility.

              In other words, someone who’s paraplegic isn’t in a “handicapping situation” when gaming in a chair.

              Or someone who’s dysorthographic isn’t handicapped as long as their not trying to write anything.

              I use handicapped as a shorthand for myself but it’s still a neat concept imho.

              I might be mistranslating some stuff since said roommate is French.

              PS: about the dance, blame it on people insisting on using our disabilities as insults.

              PS2: You’re always gonna hurt someone at one point or another. But it’s not hard to try not to and apologize when it happens imho.