• KillingTimeItself
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    -27 days ago

    im sorry are we equating cocksucker, and the n word to be on the same level of offensive slur?

    • @Redfox8@mander.xyz
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      27 days ago

      No, the discussion was not about whether different words were of equal or differing offensiveness. My discussion is about what saying ‘it’s a power thing’ actually means and how it relates to abusive behaviour.

      • KillingTimeItself
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        -16 days ago

        i suppose that’s fair. But it’s also an insult. They’re not meant to be nice.

        • @Redfox8@mander.xyz
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          15 days ago

          Exactly! Which was my original point that this ‘power thing’ is about using/tied to abusive/instluting behaviour rather than something separate.

          • KillingTimeItself
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            14 days ago

            well yeah, it’s an insult. That’s like looking at a gun, and then being really confused when it’s capable of killing somebody.

            Insults aren’t commonly derived from compliments, they’re often derived from offensive terminology, or context. That’s arguably the whole point.